Officiants & Premarital Counseling

Your Day Your Way Weddings is about creating the experience you want for your wedding ceremony. It’s all about you. Eloping? We do that. Unusual wedding theme? Sounds like fun. Vow Renewal? What a marvelous way to say, “I still choose you.” LGBTQ+Ally. We love telling couples love stories, and your story may be lighthearted and fun, or full of romance and happy tears, but we take every ceremony seriously. Because it’s yours. You won’t find a lot of pictures of us with our couples because it’s not about us. It’s about you. We serve Spokane and surrounding areas as well as Northern Idaho. We’d love to be your officiant. It’s your day, your way.

At Inland Therapy Collective, we believe every couple deserves the tools and connection to begin their life together with clarity, confidence, and care. Led by a team of devoted marriage and family therapists, we offer personalized assessments, deep-listening, and intentional sessions focused on communication, partnership goals, and healthy relational patterns. Our premarital program walks you through meaningful topics - from conflict styles and expectations to finances, intimacy, and family of origin - so you step into marriage feeling equipped and aligned. Whether you're planning to tie the knot soon or simply strengthening your foundation, our welcoming space (in-office or online) is here to support you with warmth, authenticity, and expertise.

I am an ordained minister who has been officiating weddings since 2009. Originally from the San Francisco Bay Area, I moved to Spokane, WA. in the fall of 2020. Back in California, I was part of a group of wedding officiants, Officially Yours, that collectively officiated 400+ weddings/year at our peak. Since moving to Spokane, I've struggled to gain traction in the wedding community, primarily due to a lack of contacts/networking. I don't really know many people here. I am highly collaborative in my approach to helping couples craft a unique and personalized ceremony that fits the couple's unique story, values, personalities, and desires. I offer a modern, primarily digital process that makes ceremony planning and creating simple, intuitive, engaging, and fun. I also offer premarital counselling using the Prepare/Enrich model for interested couples couples.

We at Ralph's Regal Weddings gladly perform wedding ceremonies for ALL couples in the Spokane, Washington and Coeur d’Alene, Idaho areas. Our personalized services provide every couple with a Wedding Officiant and a Ceremony Coordinator to assist with both the wedding rehearsal and ceremony. We offer ceremonies from simple to elaborate, whatever the couple’s needs and desires. We can provide them with assistance in writing their own unique vows or, if the couple chooses, even help them design their own custom ceremony that reflects their own style. We believe as much care and attention should be given to the ceremony as to other aspects of the celebration. Our goal is to provide a flawless ceremony; one the couple has always envisioned. We are committed to making every ceremony unforgettable!

Nestled in the Heart of Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, the Hitching Post Chapel is a beloved historic landmark for couples seeking an intimate, meaningful, Christian wedding. Spanning over a century of service, it's become a storied part of Northwest wedding tradition.